This is a blog about Life After 50; Choosing Joy in Chapter Two.
My purpose is to share inspiration and truth for women over fifty who want to live their best life.
I feel a definitive transition from the insanely busy and chaotic Chapter One of life culminating around age fifty and moving into a more reflective and soul-searching Chapter Two.
In my search for inspiration from other women over fifty who are rocking the second “chapter” of their lives, I realized I needed to express my own journey (or go nuts). I know I find comfort and encouragement in talking to my friends – especially my over fifty friends (you know who you are!) – and I figured others might want to share, celebrate, explore and even co-miserate.
Women of all ages face certain common issues, but there are some unique challenges and situations that women over fifty have in common.
It’s been my experience that no one can quite talk you off the ledge like a girlfriend.
Not that I don’t find younger women’s web and social media stories interesting and inspiring, I do. I especially like to follow health, fitness, organizing and wellness personalities/sites – as those are always areas I need (much!) improvement. Even if I take no action on their inspiration, it’s still puts some good stuff on my to-do but maybe I won’t do list.
A tribe of women
More and more, I am looking for real stories on how woman over fifty are navigating their lives after their children have grown and flown. How are they dealing with the same life challenges that I am? I yearn to be real, to be honest, and to be myself, more than I ever have before. I want to figure out who I am in this second chapter of life, what I want to do, where I want to be, and to do more of what really matters now.
There must be other women over 50 asking themselves these same questions.
Is it possible that I’m the only one who is tired of seeing women’s magazine story titles that read, “How to please your man” and “1,000 ways to make chicken”?
With the slowdown in laundry, kid schlepping, food shopping, parent-teacher conferences and the like – there has to be some fulfilling stuff to add. I’m ready for inspiration and positivity (and occasional crank-festivals), even in light of the serious issues this stage of life can bring, i.e. illness, aging parents, depression…
Therapeutic self-discovery and inspiration
So, in the spirit of self-expression and sharing as a sort of therapy and self-discovery (and so I don’t completely wear out my dearest friends), I decided to start communicating in this platform at the risk of no one listening.
Along my journey, I became certified in Reiki, Level 1 and 2, and then in 2020, I went further and become a certified Reiki Master. I was naturally drawn to this healing modality. Offering Reiki Healing Sessions to clients has been a beautiful heart-centered way to help women who want to relieve stress, heal, find balance and clear their energy.
I occasionally find items that are special to me and that you might like too. Check out these adorable rose quartz reiki-infused hearts I’ve added to the shop page!
Even more personal
I don’t have a super-interesting or unique life, but I’m hopeful there are other women over fifty out there who can relate and are looking to share thoughts, gripes, hopes and stories of the same.
I don’t want to focus on age but having age in common is the thread that ties us together. I’m feeling hopeful about looking for and sharing, relatable stories, inspiration and joy with you.
I live in Orange County, New York and have been self-employed in marketing and graphic design for the past two decades. I’m married and a mom to three sons, ages 24, 20 and 17, and dog-mom to my pooch Nutley.
Stay connected with me!
I hope you will stay connected with me by subscribing for my weekly blog and sharing in the funny, pissy, fabulous, awful, happy, bitchy, sad, hopeful, fearful, joyous after 50 ride – Cheers to Chapter Two of life!
Stay tuned, lots more to come…
I’ve got lots of new things planned in the coming months to help share all that I’ve learned about feeling good and living joyfully with YOU! — Marlene
Featured Writing and Appearances
I’m excited to share that my writing has recently been featured in the latest two print and digital issues of FYI50+ magazine, as well as a the author of my own regular feature column on their new website, currently under design!
I’ve been a guest on the popular Girl Camper podcast with Janine Pettit as well as a guest on the Awake Network, “Now It’s My Turn” show with Lana McAra
Check out a recent blog post in these categories!
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